Questions for Revenge or Reconciliation

Ask reflective questions and we increase the brain’s plasticity or its ability to change and improve itself. Ask questions people love to answer and reconciliation becomes a likely outcome.

The opposite is also true.

Ask vengeful questions and we alter the brain’s plasticity or its ability to change and avenge itself. Ask questions people hate to answer and revenge is a likely outcome.

Ask vengeful questions and conflict tends to follow. Ask reflective and more benefits for more people become our likely outcome.